Silver linings for my daughter

Sometimes our kids or small adults say things which surprise us. Side swiping if you know what I mean. On a couple of occasions recently both of these adults have made comments that have made me sit back and think you know what these are good people, which albeit I knew because I am biased,... Continue Reading →

The Time Has Come

I guess I was in a little bit of denial. If the truth be told I guess I was not really prepared for it. In all honesty I think in my heart of hearts I had hoped that this situation would have been averted by his death. Dad is to be moved by the end... Continue Reading →


This time last year we had the same problem. Dad is very very low and we cannot seem to fathom what is wrong. Last year and the year before Dad talked about suicide. Nothing new if you read my blogs but it still does not make it any easier especially as he only discusses such... Continue Reading →


I thought I would bring you up to speed on dad. Dad, alongside having the occasional toilet related accident has started to hallucinate. So much so that during the final trip to Portugal he apparently spied a naked woman.. that was me but he still can't get his head round that. I would not believe... Continue Reading →


Divorce and Bigamy. 2 things dad has done and done well in his life and managed to get away with. Only God knows how he did it but did it he did! If you read my blogs you will know that dad is a lover of the ladies and his current one aged 90 is... Continue Reading →

Sorry. I truly am.

Guilt is a pain the bottom hole! I have not written for a while as the book has taken shape. Literally! On a personal note I have been struggling with life in general so the blogging has taken a literal mahoosive back seat in the proverbial arse hole! So the book...The book was printed as... Continue Reading →


I was not going to write this week as the book has taken up more time than I realised but after today I thought I must. Today I heard the news that The Prodigys' lead man Keith Flint died today. The Prodigy literally shaped my taste in music. I spent my 18th birthday dancing to... Continue Reading →

Mumma know her!

Sorry for the radio silence.. it's been a faught couple of weeks. I have added another day at work too and it has made my dad PA skills here goes.   I thought moving dad would be ok. I was wrong. Very wrong. Even his last flat would not accept his notice letter because... Continue Reading →

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